When Children come into a marriage usually marital satisfaction goes down and continues to go down more with every child. It stays low till the first child leaves, then it continues to go up till the last kid leaves and stays at that high. This is extremely common for people who are married. How some of them find happiness and stay happy with each child they have is by constantly involving each other during the pregnancy. As the baby is coming along making sure that every decision you make brings the two of you closer, rather then further apart. One thing we talked about being a big problem with the actual birth of the baby, is when the father is not involved with the baby's birth. Many times when it comes to the birth it seems this is a time for the Mother of the daughter who is having the child to bond, when it needs to be the other way around. This is specifically a time for Father and Mother to bond while the child is coming. When we have moments like these and push Dad away, we start to build a wall between the married couple. The more we cling to someone else other than our spouse, we end up blocking out our spouse more and more. We need to cleve unto our spouse. If we are not willing and trying to do this, why in the world did we marry the person anyway?